Not everything a man wishes for does he attain: the…
Quote
Not everything a man wishes for does he attain: the winds blow contrary to what the ships desire.
Arabic original
ما كل ما يتمنى المرء يدركه، تجري الرياح بما لا تشتهي السفن.
What it means
The ship represents our plans and the wind what lies outside our control. Desire and effort matter, yet circumstances can alter the course. The maritime image expresses that limit without erasing human agency.
The story behind this quote
The poem containing this verse opens: “What solace is there? No kin, no homeland, no drinking companion, no cup, no dwelling.” Al-Mutanabbi first laments his loneliness, asks of his time what time itself cannot attain, and advises meeting fate “unconcerned”: joy does not last, and grief brings nothing back. He then addresses those at whose gathering he was reported dead in his absence: how often he was “killed” and “died” among them, only to rise, “and the grave and the shroud vanished”; those at his burial even died “before the one they buried”. Then comes the verse, a general maxim, before an open reproach: “I have seen that your neighbour’s honour is not safe”; closeness to them is repaid with weariness.
The poem is usually counted among those he wrote in Egypt, after leaving Sayf al-Dawla’s court in Aleppo. Its words show he had left those he reproaches: “after my departure I lay awake, missing you”, he says, blaming them for growing angry “with whoever received your gifts”. Hence its mix of homesickness and reproach.
The verse is now among the best-known lines on disappointment, its second hemistich a proverb in itself: sailing ships do not choose the wind that drives them, nor does a man always choose what time brings him. It is quoted as consolation for a loss, or to recall that wishing alone is not enough.
The source
Diwan
The text appears in the indicated source. A traditional attribution remains distinct from proof of authorship: see the context.
More quotes by Al-Mutanabbi
I have no need of homelands; no longing for return carries me back to a land I have left.
Among human failings, I have seen none like the shortcomings of those capable of perfection.
The noblest place in the world is the saddle of a swift horse, and the best companion is a book.
What use is sight to a person if light and darkness are the same to him?
Small things loom large in small eyes, and great things seem small in great eyes.
Author
Al-Mutanabbi
Abu al-Tayyib al-Mutanabbi is often considered the greatest poet of the Arabic language. His verses, famous for their pride and concision, are still quoted as proverbs throughout the Arab world.
Quotes by Al-Mutanabbi